Behavior Support Strategies for Children With Autism

Because autism comes with neurological differences, it is almost certain that these children will have difficulty with conventional behavior expectations.

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Among the common characteristics of autism which often lead to behavioral conflicts, are the following:

  • Significant, atypical difficulties with understanding and using language. This is especially demanding in group situations where several people are conversing, or a teacher is leading a discussion.
  • Often, an overly reactive sensory system that makes ordinary noise, smell, or touch intolerable.
  • Problems shifting attention or transitioning from one activity to another. Leaving a favored activity is hard, but stopping an assigned task before it is finished can also be stressful.
  • Very little ability to recognize another person’s perspective or opinion or to empathize with another’s feelings. It is certainly challenging to empathize if you cannot readily identify the feelings of others.
  • A need for predictability and routine, and a tendency to respond based on associated memories, that can lead to repeating familiar behaviors even if they produce negative results.
  • Poor recognition of public vs. private behavior and limited embarrassment or apparent concern about other people’s impressions of them.
  • Emotional responses that are apt to be extreme and are often based on immediate events, leading to rapid changes from smiling to screaming. Immediate recovery may or may not occur if the problem is “fixed.”
  • Considerable difficulty organizing themselves to do something productive in undirected play activities, in stimulating public situations, or when waiting.

Remember, these are not the result of poor parenting or teaching, nor are they deliberate, willful or manipulative behaviors. They are simply common characteristics of children with autism spectrum disorders, and they aren’t anyone’s fault.

The child is probably doing the best he/she can to cope with an extremely confusing and unpredictable world. However, these characteristics do result in problems of many sorts, including such diverse behaviors as:

  • Poking another child just to hear him/her squeal
  • Refusing to stay in circle group
  • Ignoring or automatically resisting teacher directions
  • Coming out of the bathroom with pants at half-mast
  • Becoming very upset by changes in routine
  • Saying things that are considered rude
  • Having outbursts in public places

We want to help the child modify problem behaviors and fit into society better, but how?

Generally, I suggest first trying whatever methods the teacher or parent would use with other children, especially in a group setting where the expectations are the same for all the children. However, traditional methods often don’t work for children with these issues, especially if the methods involve explanation, loss of privileges, discussion, and reasoning, or appealing to empathy, self-image, or guilt.

Time-out might work, but in school, it can become a desirable escape. Rewards can be very helpful if they are clearly connected to a specific positive behavior that is well within the child’s ability, such as staying seated on the bus, but not if they are tied to a vague generality like “being good on the bus.”  It’s important to realize that adults will have to modify the environment and their expectations in addition to helping the child modify his or her behavior.

Also, this child will not automatically generalize a new behavior to even obviously similar situations and will be unlikely to intuitively discover and interpret social expectations. Learning to set his/her cup on the table does not guarantee that he/she will not throw his plate on the floor.


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Keeping in mind that these are children who need considerable individualization in all aspects of learning, and that specific strategy must be designed to fit each child’s situation, the following are some general guidelines that I’ve found to be helpful:

  • Talk less. Use demonstration, visual cues, and physical prompts, shortening and simplifying the language in stressful situations. Repetitive or predictable language is also helpful in a crisis, such as saying “Eight steps to the door; 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8 -open!” as you physically help the child move in that direction.
  • Use routine, structure, schedules, and predictability to provide a comfortable, less alarming situation for the child, but keep including small variations to help develop flexibility.” We need to change the plan today. One game and one book instead of two books. I will write it on the schedule.”
  • Ease transitions by shortening the gap (present new materials as you remove the old ones, don’t come to circle group until it’s ready to start), provide transitional objects to carry from one place to the next (especially if the object is useful in the next activity), and keep language simple and familiar (“All done with __, now it’s time for__” ).
  • Distract and redirect the child to something more acceptable, such as a toy someone else isn’t using, the sound of an airplane going over, or a small fidget toy in circle group or when waiting in line. When you do explain, keep it clear and simple: “Liam’s turn with the train. We will wait and do the puzzle.”
  • Change the location or environment to remove yourselves from things that trigger or prolong the problem. If the cafeteria is too loud or smelly, eat somewhere else, with a friend or two if possible. Move away from group situations when you see agitation increasing. “It’s too noisy here. Time to go for a walk.”
  • Prevent recurring problems that may quickly become negative rituals by changing the format, changing your language or behavior or temporarily avoiding the situation and gradually reintroducing it. If a child always shrieks and collapses on the ground as you transition from the playground to the car, have a favorite toy or treat in the car and instead of telling the child that you have to go get a sibling, say “It’s time to get the (treat or toy).”
  • Teach rules that are clear, simple and concrete (“sit on the carpet square,” not “sit nicely”) and reward improvement toward acceptable behavior, even if it was brief or adult-assisted at first. In the playground example above, the child gets the reward when he/she is buckled in the car seat even if it was a struggle to get there and you say something like, “You’re in the car seat; here’s the…”
  • Teach competing for acceptable behaviors such as appropriate self-help skills and social routines to replace problem behaviors. Feeling competent and knowing what to do in a situation reduces the anxiety that often underlies inappropriate behavior.

Expect progress but not an immediate cure. Try to see the problem from the child’s perspective and gradually help him/her cope in ways that are more socially acceptable.

This article was featured in Issue 90 – Practical Ways to Build Skills for a Lifetime

Elizabeth "Betsey" Field

Elizabeth "Betsey" Field lived in Maine until 2015 and had a rewarding career as a speech-language pathologist working in a state institution, community agencies, schools, a university, and private practice. The majority of that time she was serving as a consultant to school teams and to families working with children and young adults diagnosed on the autism spectrum with a focus on increasing communication, independence, and appropriate social behavior. Betsey now lives in Massachusetts, where she works part-time, maintains some long-distance consultation in Maine and enjoys having four grandchildren nearby.

  • Avatar Elizabeth Field says:

    Thanks for posting my article! I hope readers will find it helpful. I would love to hear any feedback.

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